So I'm a week late. I had to sneak a copy off the bookstore "New Release" table after hours to read Jennifer Fulwiler's long-awaited spiritual autobiography, "Something Other Than God." Here you go!
Some
years ago, I discovered the “mommy blog” genre of online writing.
The Catholic mommy bloggers especially offered me a real-life picture
of faith in a 21st
century family setting. I began to notice how many of these women
whose writing I really admired were not only living
the Catholic faith, but still discovering
it: They were converts. One of the most outstanding of these writers
was Jennifer Fulwiler, of ConversionDiary.com. Brought up an only
child, she is raising more children than she had ever seen in one
place growing up. Educated to be a convinced and assured atheist, she
thought she had all the answers, except for that one nagging issue:
Why does life have to be so beautiful—when it is so meaningless?
In
Something
Other Than God: How I Passionately Sought Happiness and Accidentally
Found It (Ignatius
Press, San Francisco, 2014) Fulwiler traces the unlikely path of
Providence from her childhood experiences of alienation from anything
that might bear the name “Christian” to her realization that the
Catholic baptism she had received as an infant (for the sake of the
grandparents) had actually accomplished something very real in her
life.
On
the surface, Fulwiler would not have seemed destined for Catholic Mom
of the Year the year before her conversion began in earnest: She had
an exciting job in computers, was married to a genial overachiever,
enjoyed friends, music and parties (lots of those), and had every
reason to believe that her husband's goal of his “first million”
was very much within reach. It was the birth of a son that cemented
in her the overflowing conviction that life and joy and love were not
merely chemical reactions in a material brain: they were evidence
that needed to be taken into consideration.
While
Something
Other Than God
is the story of a serious search for the meaning of life, you will
find yourself laughing out loud over some of the episodes. (Fulwiler
is a worthy heir to Erma Bombeck in that regard.) She has an eye for
the incongruous detail that is the secret of humor writing, and a
heart for the quirky poignancy of human life. (How many people do you
know are consoled by the Catholic doctrine of Purgatory because it
means they can pray for the soul of a violent rapper who met a
violent end?)
Last
year the RCIA director of a cathedral parish in the midwest commented
that more and more of the people coming into the Catholic Church seem
to be agnostics who began to doubt their unbelief. Look around you:
these are your neighbors, co-workers, business associates. I would
highly recommend Fulwiler's memoir to people who are beginning to
ask their Catholic neighbors questions about faith in God, belief in
Jesus, the role of the Pope and where the Bible came from, and to people like the pre-conversion Jennifer who have a perfect life, but
can't help asking why life isn't perfect. I might even leave it
in the office bathroom so people who are not ready to “come out”
in terms of their interest in religion can read it in private, the
way Fulwiler read her books about Jesus.
Here's a post about my interview with Jennifer during the 2012 Catholic New Media Conference in her home state. Download to audio file to listen to the interview with Fulwiler.
You
might also enjoy
Catholic by Choice: Why I Embraced the Faith, Joined the Church, and Embarked on the Adventure of a Lifetime (Loyola
Press, Chicago, 2014) by Richard Cole, an Austinite (and a wordsmith)
like Fulwiler.
